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S6E16: Parts are not Problems: An IFS Deep Dive with Andrea Tessier - Part 2

Wild + (finally fcking) Free·Kylie Patchett·Dec 9, 2025· 29 minutes

 

In this juicy AF episode, I sit down with the absolute gem of a human, Andrea Tessier – IFS practitioner, master coach, intuitive powerhouse, and the woman who helps people trust themselves for a living.

We go deep into Internal Family Systems (IFS) – what it is, how it works, and why your so-called “problem parts” are actually the ones loving the hardest on you.

This conversation is equal parts practical, magical, identity-shifting, and business-changing.

If you’ve ever wondered why you’re doing “all the right things” and still feel stuck, this one's for you.


What We Dive Into

  • What IFS actually is (spoiler: there are NO bad parts)
  • Why certain patterns in business feel like sabotage… but aren’t
  • The truth about striver parts, perfectionists, procrastinators, rebels, people-pleasers, over-responsibility, and other familiar inner characters
  • What “Self with a capital S” feels like – and why it’s the ONLY place you can sustainably run a business from
  • How “parts running your business” creates burnout, codependency, resentment, or confusion
  • How manager parts + firefighter parts work (and why your binge-eating, dissociation, scrolling, or burnout patterns aren’t moral failures)
  • The difference between fear-driven business and freedom-driven business
  • Why traditional coaching often becomes “manager-to-manager” instead of soul-to-soul
  • Why so much online marketing feels icky – and the IFS lens that explains it perfectly
  • How to make business decisions, marketing, sales, and boundaries from Self-energy
  • A big conversation about AI, urgency marketing, and integrity in the current coaching industry


Andrea Tessier, M.Ed. is a Master Life Coach and a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) Practitioner who helps visionary leaders and entrepreneurs cultivate deep self-trust and lead from within. Through her signature blend of psychology, spirituality, and embodied leadership, Andrea guides clients to move beyond perfectionism, over-responsibility, and self-doubt—so they can create lives and businesses rooted in freedom, purpose, and wholeness. Her work bridges the inner and outer worlds, helping people reconnect with their calm, wise Self and lead their lives with clarity, courage, and confidence.


Resources mentioned:

IFS Parts Work & Self-Trust Starter Kit - Andrea’s Free IFS Starter Kit - This is the freebie she mentioned inside the episode – and it’s SO GOOD.

What’s Inside

  • Why self-trust feels hard (hint: it’s never willpower)
  • The 3-step IFS process: Notice → Acknowledge → Befriend
  • Journaling prompts to help you hear your inner wisdom
  • A guided practice to meet your parts with compassion instead of shame
  • A totally new way to understand the “personal problems” showing up in your business


Watch Andrea on YouTube @IFS & Spirituality with Andrea

Her channel is full of processes, teachings, and guided IFS meditations:


Connect With Andrea

  • Website: https://www.andreatessier.com
  • Instagram: @andrea.tessier.coaching
  • Work with her 1:1: High-touch IFS-based coaching for self-trust, clarity, and internal freedom.


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S6E16: Parts are not Problems: An IFS Deep Dive with Andrea Tessier - Part 2

Andrea Tessier: [00:00:00] How do I, you know, promote myself because it's icky? And so they don't do it at all. Yes. And so this is actually just the way that No, you actually can. Yeah. But can you do it from the quality of compassion?

Andrea Tessier: Yeah,

Andrea Tessier: exactly. Right. Can you do it from a quality of connectedness? Can you do it from a quality of like courage?

Kylie Patchett: Welcome to Wild and finally fucking Free the show for disruptors, rebels, and revolutionaries who know they're here to change the damn world. I'm Kylie Patchett, your voice and visibility catalyst, and here we dive into unapologetic truth, magnetic messaging and visibility. That actually feels good. In your body, your bones, and your business.

Kylie Patchett: We share the stories of the out of the box, neuro sparkly, creative, witchy, wild ones, rewriting how we live, love, learn, and lead. This isn't about being louder, [00:01:00] it's about being rooted, resonant, and regulated, so you can be real raw and ready to raw. If you're done, contorting yourself to fit the mold and you're ready to own your voice, your power, and your place in the revolution, welcome home.

Kylie Patchett: Let's dive in.

Hello friends. Welcome to another guest episode. Now you have arrived at part two of a very juicy episode with Andrea Tessier. So if you haven't listened to part one, go back, listen to that and then come on down. Andrea is a friend of mine. She is an amazing coach, master coach, and an if s practitioner that helps entrepreneurs understand the parts of them that could be coming out and trying to drive the business bus instead of letting the wild woman authentic self lead, enjoy.

Andrea Tessier: what I, I feel like is really important to say here is like people are like listening and going like, oh my God, I have a manager.

Andrea Tessier: Oh my God, I have a firefighter. I have that part. Like we need to know that parts are [00:02:00] not problems, they are not obstacles. They have developed for very good reasons. Mm-hmm. They have good intentions. Yeah. A lot of traditional therapy, a lot of traditional coaching will actually kind of, teach us to override or discipline or fix these parts that get in the way from being the person that we wanna be, or we're told to reframe them or, yeah.

Andrea Tessier: Find a better feeling of thought. But IFS takes a completely different view, like it sees that these are protectors, they're actually very loyal. Yes. They actually really like you a lot. Yes. Trying to keep you safe in the way that they know how. And so the intention is good. And if we can bring a level of like, respect and reciprocity to these parts, that's actually how they settle.

Andrea Tessier: Everybody just wants to be seen and heard and understood and seen for how good they are. Yeah. And the same is true [00:03:00] inside. Yeah. Yeah. And so when we can bring that level of like love and understanding to our parts, that's actually how we get the balance that people are always seeking and craving.

Kylie Patchett: Yes. Exactly. I, I. When you're talking about like traditional co traditional therapy and coaching, it's like these parts get demonized. And I think that one of the key things when I, when I found parts work and I was like, like when you know Dick Schwartz, I always call him Dick Schwartz. He's such a cool little dude, isn't he?

Kylie Patchett: But, um, like the concept of there is no bad parts. So when I heard that and I'm like, but my binge eater is a bad part, like this had been a problem, like a problem for me for. My entire life. Yeah. Mm-hmm. That's, you know, and this is when I came across parts, it was actually in, um, a program about, yeah.

Kylie Patchett: Binge eating, which was very interesting because the program overall was this, like, this is a problem and the only way to fix it is complete abstinence. Like of, all of [00:04:00] these foods were demonized and whatever. But then there's this, there was this an external coach who was an IFS practitioner, and I remember watching like.

Kylie Patchett: A masterclass about it, and he talked about how, you know, there's this thing that's happening, there's a, wounded exile underneath all of this, and then. When that binge eater comes online, because there's so much guilt and shame that happens with that kind of addiction pathway, right? That it's like this constant manager, firefighter, manager, firefighter, manager, firefighter, and it can feel like you have no control over it.

Kylie Patchett: As soon as I understood that, it's like, oh, instead of trying to demonize the binge eater, like mm-hmm. What I actually, the invitation here is to like cuddle up to that part. I mean, Lee like. Tell me, tell me what you're trying to do. And I remember one of the first times I did like an IFS process on like the binge eater, which I always thought was like the enemy.

Kylie Patchett: It that there was such a moment in time where. Like that part, they [00:05:00] don't like it. She didn't understand that I was a, I don't know how old I was then. Maybe 40, I don't know, five or something like that. Part didn't understand that I was a 45-year-old woman with, you know, sovereignty and wasn't in a dangerous environment and wasn't like all of those things.

Kylie Patchett: And I remember just. Feeling this like big sense of like, this part is like, so, okay, I'm on duty and I'm like, I'm gonna have to be hypervigilant and this is my job to keep her safe. And then this sense of just like, huh, okay, so if I don't have to play this role and you are an adult. And I, I was part of that process is like, what would you like to do if you didn't have to do that?

Kylie Patchett: And the answer was, I would like to be sitting by a pool with a cocktail, please, and thank you. Like, I just wanna sit back and relax. Like, this poor part was exhausting. And like you say, it's from love. Like they're trying to be of service to us in the best way that they know how exactly. And how cool, like, [00:06:00] I can now look at that part and go, wow, if you didn't come online back when I was four imagine what pain I would've experienced without that ability to circuit break, you know?

Kylie Patchett: So that, that's wild to me.

Andrea Tessier: Well, it's. School is like, it's so amazing to see parts that you know have been running the show to realize, oh, like higher self is here. Like self energy is here. I can relax. Like most often people's bodies just like, just something soften and they're like, oh, good. Or they realize how old the person actually is.

Andrea Tessier: Now, most often when we ask parts like, oh, how old do you think I am? We get like single digits back. You don't, even though you can intellectualize what's under happening, like your parts haven't been updated.

Kylie Patchett: They don't

Andrea Tessier: understand that you're not who you were back then. That makes sense. And it just provides them with so much relief and they're kind of like, oh, okay, well there's an adult here, like I can chill out.[00:07:00]

Andrea Tessier: And so it's such an empowering and like relieving process for people because then what naturally gets to emerge is. You? Yes. It sounds like people will kind of me feel like, oh my gosh, I'm so confused. I don't have clarity, and we don't spend this session brainstorming and trying to get clarity. No. I'm more interested in like, let's see what part is in the way of this clarity.

Andrea Tessier: Yes, let's support that part to relaxing. And then within the next few days, I always get messages that are like, oh my God, Andrea, you won't believe it. I just had this ama amazing idea. I have the clarity. And I'm like, yeah, I know. This is just what you. After a parts extension, I'm always so excited because usually that clarity is nothing that they would've ever been able to come up with.

Andrea Tessier: Yes. When they're blended with their parts. Yeah,

Kylie Patchett: exactly. And this is why I'm always asking the question, like, who's driving the business bus? Mm-hmm. And I, I simplify it by saying fear or freedom. Right. But what I'm really saying [00:08:00] is, apart. Or self energy, you know, if we could say it in that way. You mentioned before some common parts, and I'm just wondering if we can kind of revisit like in entrepreneurship, and again, I think, there's, I don't love spending energy saying what doesn't work.

Kylie Patchett: And I will also say again, that my personal point of view is that. A lot of, particularly online coaching is very much about you either push through or you get a system that like, you know, you plug yourself into this framework and it's like. But if you're doing it from an energy that's not self energy, and also like I've got a post brewing inside of me about Black Friday sales.

Kylie Patchett: I'm like, who is buying on Black Friday? Is it a part or is it your self energy? Is it fear or is it freedom? Like you could add to cart all you want, but if what? What you're seeking is relief from this pain that you are perceiving that you're in, that business is not working. Guess what? You [00:09:00] just, you know, save your money.

Kylie Patchett: People like stop pressing by. So,

Andrea Tessier: yeah. Yeah. This is like a personal like, ugh. Thing for me is how so much coaching, so much therapy tends to be manager to manager. Yes. It's like you come to me with your perceived problem. Right. Binge eating is a problem. Mm-hmm. And then my manager says, well, I can help you solve the problem.

Andrea Tessier: Who's asking like, what's underneath? Right? Mm-hmm. There is no self energy there. When you are coming with your manager parts and I'm showing up with mine and I'm like, I can fix you. It's like. It will only ever go so far because at some point the system needs to balance itself. The firefighter will come up because that's what the system does, and people backtrack or they feel like they spiral or just end up feeling more and more dysregulated and then eventually pissed off and resentful at me because I didn't promise what I said I was gonna promise.[00:10:00]

Kylie Patchett: Exactly. And also the other thing that I. Well, actually, let's have this conversation. This is one of the things that we wanna to touch on this whole, like the whole concept of pain point marketing. So like the part, yeah. Okay. Yeah, yeah. Let's go down that like rabbit hole because I don't know, I just feel like.

Kylie Patchett: I don't know, like I wrote that post months ago about coaches, coaching coaches to coach coaches, and that's really at the heart of what we're talking about is like, you know, you can teach someone in and as a copywriter, like I know how to manipulate someone into buying something. I. I'm, I could pretty much guarantee that, you know, a sales page is gonna get at least 70% uptake if I marketed to your manager parts or your firefighters that are looking for relief to the pressure in your system.

Kylie Patchett: But if I'm actually in integrity, I don't wanna be doing that. I want to be riding from myself and talking to yourself. Um, and you have a lot to say about this, so [00:11:00] go for it. Well, I mean, you covered the gist of it, Patty. Oh, sorry.

Andrea Tessier: I took care sign. No, I'm just kidding. But it's absolutely true.

Andrea Tessier: Like we are really taught this like P point marketing, but like. Whose pain are we pulling on? Like, are we, we are, are we actually talking to the exile of somebody else who doesn't feel worthy or who doesn't feel safe to be seen? Is that who we're talking to? Are we talking to the perfectionist managers who just want the system that's gonna perfect things?

Andrea Tessier: Are we talking to the drivers that are just like, what? I can make six figures in a year? Yes. I will grind myself in a minute, Andrea in a minute. Oh my God, I was so irate yesterday. I saw a post that was like, you can be a neuroscience coach by this time next week. And I was like, do not ever coach me. If you took a program that you learned in one fricking week, don't ever like, I'm so [00:12:00] mad.

Andrea Tessier: Also,

Kylie Patchett: I've got so much to say about that as well. Saw that on Instagram.

Andrea Tessier: Right? That's not my highest self. Anything that promotes a sense of urgency. Mm-hmm. Or something is wrong with you. And, and this thing is, the solution is not a self to self thing. If we're truly, like, if I'm in self energy and I'm speaking to somebody's highest self mm-hmm.

Andrea Tessier: Like their most empowered version, yes. That person wins. And so do I. Yes. Like not only if they come to me, are they going to feel like their whole Yes. Is completely embodied. But the results that they create will actually be like sustainable. Yes. Really work because their self, which, you know, the only agenda of self energy is, is to heal.

Andrea Tessier: Right? Is is higher and higher consciousness. Right. And. You know, that can only happen if we're talking to the other person's higher self. We can acknowledge that they have parts, uh, but that's not who we want to be making our decisions [00:13:00] for. Yes, exactly.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah. I've been really, since we had, like I listened to, you were talking about this on another podcast episode that I'd listened to, and I was like, oh, that is so true.

Kylie Patchett: Like. It gave me a different lens through which to understand why I am so against sales manipulation in copy, right? Mm-hmm. I it's, I've always been against it, and I've always talked about being against it, and I've always talked about storytelling as the way to connect, you know, heart to heart with someone, but I wasn't kind of getting that, that next perspective, which is like.

Kylie Patchett: Of course. That's why and you know, I, I played that game in my first business. Like I, I always did what I believed was in integrity. But really when I look back, like I was, I've been looking through my Google Drive the other day because I'm like cleaning stuff out and I was like, wow, some of this is like, so not how I would position it.

Kylie Patchett: Like I believe in the, in the content, but the way that. I had been delivering it or just [00:14:00] repeating. And this is the coaches, coaching coaches to coach coaches, right? You see monkey do monkey, monkey see, monkey do. It's like, oh, that must work because that person is more successful than me. So that's the way that I have to market and that's the way that I have to sell.

Kylie Patchett: And that's the way, like all of the like time things and the scarcity and the dah, dah, dah, it works. But who do we welcome into our worlds, into our business ecosystem when we are speaking?

Andrea Tessier: Yeah, and we've all been there where we're like, not even sure if we wanna market, because it's icky, right? So many people are like, oh my gosh, how do I even have a, a coaching business?

Andrea Tessier: How do I, you know, promote myself because it's icky? And so they don't do it at all. Yes. And so this is actually just the way that No, you actually can. Yeah. But can you do it from the quality of compassion?

Andrea Tessier: Yeah,

Andrea Tessier: exactly. Right. Can you do it from a quality of connectedness? Can you do it from a quality of like courage?

Andrea Tessier: Yes. So you

Andrea Tessier: can

Andrea Tessier: [00:15:00] say the bold thing that's on your heart. Right. Can you say it from calm? And so it's not like, oh, I need you to pick me to be my coach. Can you say it from body? And, and to their highest self that can receive that.

Kylie Patchett: Mm-hmm.

Andrea Tessier: And, um, in that way, even if they don't work with you, that's not the point.

Andrea Tessier: It means that your message itself can be shifting consciousness for people. Yes. Right. Yes. It can be tapping into some of these higher self, and that's amazing to me. Like even if somebody doesn't work with me, but they read those words and they feel empowered like I've done something. Yeah, exactly.

Andrea Tessier: Exactly. And that's where marketing does not have to feel icky. It can actually be a, like a really beautiful offering in fact exchange. Yeah, exactly.

Kylie Patchett: And, and I think as, as I'm hearing you speak, there's this. Often, I often talk in the words of like frequency or like the bat signal that you're putting out in your marketing.

Kylie Patchett: Like, who are you actually attracting? What, what [00:16:00] frequency are you putting out in that bat signal? And I use the example of like when this very over preneur, codependent trained part of me was running my first business, the bat signal I was putting out definitely attracted, a attracted a lot of beautiful humans and.

Kylie Patchett: Quite a number of people that were looking for someone to fix them because that was the part that I was playing, that was the bat signal I was putting out there. So of course with that frequency, the people that match it are the people that want that. And I'm like, so be very careful how you market and what energy you're in.

Kylie Patchett: Because if you put everything out there with the perfectionist part, guess who you're gonna get back. You're going to get back people that want you to be perfect. And like you said before, that level of like resentment or it comes back sometimes when there's people that you've invited in through that frequency and it's like, don't put yourself in harm's way.

Kylie Patchett: And I was just having this conversation the other day with another beautiful human who's an entrepreneur, and she's like, I don't actually care if this way is slower because it [00:17:00] saves me from doing harm to other people by doing things from this push, push. Grippy Graspy. Like have to scale quickly.

Kylie Patchett: And I'm not saying that the two are, I think it's important to say like we're not saying that it's mutually exclusive. I'm sure that there's people that are in integrity that are talking self to false self and also have had rapid growth. So I'm not saying one like negates the other, but I do think that a lot of the messaging we hear about the six figures in a year, six figures in a round, six figures in a minute, blahdi blah, is through that.

Kylie Patchett: Like it has to be done in a particular way. And that way is often that very. Fear driven thing, and I just don't wanna play the game. I'm just saying,

Andrea Tessier: this is not my playing field. No. And like, you know, we're saying all this and this is definitely like a, a hill that I'm ready to like, you know, die on because it, it means a lot to me, but.

Andrea Tessier: To be able to [00:18:00] market that way. Like we really have to be pretty like practiced in our own system. Yes. Right. You have to like be working yourself doing your shadow work in whatever way that looks like. Like I love it through IFS because it's great for analytical people, people who are really heady, like it's.

Andrea Tessier: Such a like, easy way in. Yes. Yeah. Easy. Um, people who are drawn to it. Mm-hmm. But I mean, there's a lot of ways into self energy, whether it's through somatic work, human design, like there's a mi there's a million different ways to get from Toronto to where you are in a Yes. Like you can get to self energy a million different ways.

Andrea Tessier: I do personally find IFS really effective. And sustainable and. Relatively efficient. Yes. But you have to do your own work. Like the marketing aspect for me to get to that level where I could like really be intentional about my marketing in that way is because like I have worked with my system for years.

Andrea Tessier: There is a lot of self energy here because I've worked with a lot of [00:19:00] my key player parts and so. I know being able to do that work and you know, you can check out my YouTube channel. There's a ton of free content there that will guide you into working with your parts as well. Um, I. Or you know, a practitioner, an IFS practitioner, whether it's, you know, me or other coaches out there, or therapists out there, like getting the reps in where you are guided because it's so much more potent when you're guided and somebody is leading you than when you're trying to do it yourself.

Andrea Tessier: But doing the work yourself is like the precursor. Like getting yourself into genuine self energy as much as possible so that it becomes a more natural state for you to be in, and then leading it into your work is a really beautiful, like just next step.

Kylie Patchett: It's so much I, we were reflecting before we started recording about Yeah.

Kylie Patchett: I, it's a, an anniversary of a, a decision that I made from a fear like [00:20:00] a manager part who was absolutely terrified of this fast expansion. I was in this time last year, right. And I just keep on coming home to every decision that I look back on and go, it probably wasn't, it, well, I know it wasn't, not probably, I know that that decision was not made with self energy, and of course it's not the right one or the, or the, the best and most healthy way of getting somewhere because my self energy had. Yeah, was under a lot of layers right at this, at this point. I feel like, I know we need to finish up, but I feel like I am going to like PS this episode by saying this is why.

Kylie Patchett: So I love AI for so many different purposes, but what I really want people to hear, and then I'm gonna do a solo episode about it right after this, I think is the fact that AI can be. Way, a way that some of your protective parts are stopping you from [00:21:00] actually having to finesse your message and know who you're talking to and have your self energy as the start of anything that you do with ai.

Kylie Patchett: And this is the problem because you, you are not speaking from your own frequency. You're speaking from a, you know, computer generated frequency. And yes, you know, I use AI for many things. I don't know, writing welcome emails, for instance, where, it's not as important. But then inside of that welcome email is me on video with my self energy talking to you, right?

Kylie Patchett: So I, I'm not against ai, but I think that this is the reason why we are in. Very dangerous territory because if you're not starting with self energy, you are not putting out a clean bat signal. But anyway, that's a whole other episode. Um, can you please tell us what your YouTube channel is called? 'cause you mentioned Yeah, I just changed the name, but I think it's IFS

Andrea Tessier: and spirituality.

Andrea Tessier: With Andrea, you can just like, kind of like search my name and I've. Quite a lot of just videos that will explain different [00:22:00] parts or more about IFS if you want more of an explanation and some really beautiful processes as well, if you wanna like listen to a meditation and be guided into your system.

Andrea Tessier: Yeah. Yeah.

Kylie Patchett: Highly recommend if you, if you've never heard of parts work or if you've heard about it, but haven't understood. Just allow this to be a little breadcrumb trail. Like if you're feeling that sense of curiosity in the body, follow it because I guarantee that it will help you be much more compassionate about parts of you that you're probably thinking are problems, and actually they're really loving on you in the way that only they know how.

Kylie Patchett: Um, do you have anything else you'd like to share on your website that people can like, get started with? Getting to know if f Yeah.

Andrea Tessier: Yeah, I would invite people, like, like I said, I, I get to help people trust themselves for a living. And so I have a self-trust starter kit. It's blending IFS and some of the self-trust work that I've been doing.

Andrea Tessier: And so that's a really beautiful place to start. Um, and we [00:23:00] can like that in the show notes. And it's on my webs. Let's do that. And you know, for the time being, I'm just working one-on-one with people in a really high touch coaching space. I think this is where this work gets to be the most potent. And so if that's ever something that feels good to somebody, like definitely get in touch.

Kylie Patchett: Yes. And remember, like the key thing to understand is, like we said right at the beginning. There's not really that many business problems. There's a lot of personal problems showing up in business, clothing, the way that they're expressing themselves. That's all. Um, so if you are trying to slap more strategy or a magic pill solution, or a new coach or a new program or whatever, on top of, you know, a system that is kind of showing up in ways that you don't really want to, you're just putting.

Kylie Patchett: You're setting yourself up to fail. I'm not gonna mince my words, so there you go.

Andrea Tessier: Mic drop. All my systems started working so much better.

Kylie Patchett: Yeah.

Andrea Tessier: Once my inner system was [00:24:00] aligned and I had the capacity for it,

Kylie Patchett: of course, because yeah, it's, it's exhausting. Like we've said multiple times, it's exhausting to be in this.

Kylie Patchett: Push me, pull you, you know, swing backwards and forwards because we have been taught by the world that, you know, some of these particularly firefighters, like you need to demonize them and that's a bad part of you or whatever. And um, yeah, bring some compassion and some love. And I love that you say that you get to help people trust themselves for a living.

Kylie Patchett: That's very, very cool. Mm-hmm. Little summary of Andrea and her. Native environment. Thank you so much. This has been such a joy. I think I, I mean, I've got many, many other questions, so I think we'll have to come back for part two. Okay. Let's, yeah.

Andrea Tessier: Happy to. Also, I'm gonna just put this out there. Yes. If you ever want me to guide you through a process live Yes, let's do that on your podcast so people know what we're talking

Kylie Patchett: about.

Kylie Patchett: Yes. Could do that too. I'm down for that. I'm like an open book. Anyway, I talk about everything that's going on in my system, so why the heck not? [00:25:00] Yes, I love, um, that be really fun. I love that. Like I have really appreciated podcasts like Amy Bo Boish Babish has where she's guiding through. 'cause I'm like, I don't know what m Al chemical constellations are, but listening to it, I'm like.

Kylie Patchett: This shit is wild. Like, it's so cool. So yes. Let's do that. We'll book it in. Thank you everybody for listening in. Um, and yeah, stay tuned for that AI episode. 'cause I do have a lot to say about this revolution that we are in the middle of. I'm not anti it, but I do think that there's big asterisk that we need to be aware of.

Andrea Tessier: Thank you.

Kylie Patchett: Thanks for tuning in to another episode. If this episode lit a fire in your body, in your business, deep down in your bones, please take a moment to drop a rating and review. So more rebels just like you can find us. And don't keep this goodness to yourself. Share it with your disruptive, rebel, and revolutionary friends who are ready to roar right alongside of you.

Kylie Patchett: Until [00:26:00] next time, stay wild, stay unapologetic, and stay fucking free.