S6E1: Good Girls Don’t Lead Revolutions: Season 6 Kickoff

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Welcome back, rebels – it’s Season Six and we are turning the volume way up. After a seven-week sabbatical, I’m back with fresh fire, juicier stories, and a whole new lens on visibility and voice.

In this kickoff episode, I spill:

1. The truth about my “Overpreneur” Achilles heel (and why hustle addiction nearly broke me).

2. How True Sidereal Human Design flipped my world from Generator to Manifestor – and why that matters for the way I run my business.

3. The evolution of my Making Friends With Fear archetypes into the 9 Visibility Fear Frames – the blocks that keep disruptors and paradigm-shifters small, and how to alchemize them into freedom.

4. Why “good girls do not lead revolutions”… and why unleashing your wild, unapologetic roar is the strategy your business has been waiting for.

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TRANSCRIPT - S6E1: Good Girls Don’t Lead Revolutions: Season 6 Kickoff

[00:01:00] [00:02:00] Hello there, friends. Welcome back. It is season six of the podcast. Still the same fabulous name because of course we will [00:03:00] have to swear in our title, but we are zooming in in this season on some really specific topics all around voice visibility, magnetic messaging, and of course business energetics, which is where my heart lies.

So I have just taken. The most delicious. I keep saying it's a five week break, but actually I was offline for almost seven, so almost two months. And what a delicious little point in time I gave myself. Not only did I rest and I gave myself some wintering time and that cyclical beautiful space just to, not always be on the go and not always switched on.

And. What it actually gave me. I mean, I feel so much more rested, number one, physically, energetically, emotionally. But what it really gave me was a chance to tune out all of the [00:04:00] outside noise and to really tune in to my beautiful heart. And man, oh man, did she have a lot to say? So I would love to share a little behind the scenes story 'cause I'm gonna be outing myself here.

Now if you've worked with me, or if you're one of my friends that listens in, you will not be surprised by any of this. But for our other listeners that don't know, some of my backstory, and I've spoken about this sometimes on the podcast as well, I was in business as an online entrepreneur back in 2011 to 2017, and

what I created was an entrepreneurial business, which was as bad for my health, for my own flow, for my freedom, for my family time as working in corporate. And here is why I still had such strong conditioning around.[00:05:00]

My work equaling my worth. And so, there's a part of me, a conditioned part of me, and all of us have, different patterns and different ways of turning up in the world. This is why I love energetics, right? And there's a part of me, which I call the overpr preneur, which is literally addicted to the hustle and addicted to the productivity and addicted to the ticking things off.

So much so that. If I let myself, and this is, is still like an achilles heel for me, but I'm very aware of it these days. I will still tip into working way too many hours, not having anywhere near as much fun and freedom and flexibility as is good for me. And I have really, really gotten to know this part of me because.

And just recently I have been deep diving into human design, but more specifically, True Sidereal human design. So in traditional human design, I am a three five generator. If you don't [00:06:00] know much about human design, it's basically a system for self-awareness. It's based on multiple different things like the chakra system, like the I ching, like the Kabbalah, and it all comes down to.

Who you are here to be and based on what is happening in the sky at the time you're born. And I figured out that the whole tropical astrology and therefore tropical human design end of things is this assigned thing. So we just say I was born on January the 30th, so my assignment is as an Aquarian, but.

The thing is that when I was born, Aquarius was not what was in the sky. And so I discovered True Sidereal, which is actually based on the astrology that really was in the sky at the time you were born, not just the assigned sign by date.

So just to explain the difference between tropical and true tropical is based on season, so it locks the start of Aries to the [00:07:00] spring equinox in the northern hemisphere, and then the Zodiac signs are all tied to the earth's relationships of the sun, but not to the actual. Positions of the stars in the sky, and this is a system that most Western astrology uses, and therefore human design by default.

However, True Sidereal. Is not using the as assigned places in the sky. It's using the actual constellations in the sky. So it takes into account what's called the precession of the equinoxes. That's basically like the earth's little wobbly wobbly that it does over about 26,000 years. So the signs line up for the real star constellations.

So the dates for the signs are different and sometimes longer or shorter than the next sign because some constellations are bigger and so therefore, in the sky for a longer time.

So in general, if you're born in the last 50 years, whatever your assigned sign was [00:08:00] at birth. In True Sidereal, you're about 27 degrees earlier than that. So I thought I was an Aquarian with a Virgo moon and a cancer rising, and I'm actually a Capricorn with a Gemini moon and a Leo rising, which makes far more sense to me. Anyway, long story short, got into True Sidereal human design. It was delving into the study of the different energy centers in the body and I was like, oh, interesting.

In tropical, I have only got a couple of centers that are defined, but in True Sidereal I've got two centers that are not defined. First one sacral, second one, the G center. And if you know me. Oh my goodness. So much of my conditioning just plays this out anyway, so

i've been using human design to help my clients to understand the ways in which they're naturally meant to be communicating in the world [00:09:00] naturally meant to be, , flowing. So for me. I'm actually a one three manifestor. And a manifesta is not designed to have these huge long stretches of like day in, day out.

Action, action, action, action. Manifesters are actually designed and feel best when they have big creative urges and surges when the, , the time is right and when something drops into their mind. And then a beautiful eeb back to real rest. Very inward facing, and this is why I finally gave myself the winter sabbatical.

Now I am totally changing the way that I do business based on all of this. The other thing that's been happening is in 2015, I wrote a book called Making Friends with Fear. Back then, I was, very much focused on mindset coaching, and I loved it. But this was in the days when I was running my over preneur thing, and that is actually one of the [00:10:00] archetypes in my Making Friends with Fear book.

And those archetypes basically represented these patterns that I saw my women entrepreneur clients getting almost like set points that their energy just kept getting stuck in. Now, back then I was focusing on mindset, but as I was studying human design, I actually realized that these. Archetypes for general business.

I could actually really streamline into visibility. Symptoms, visibility blocks. And then on the flip side, this visibility superpower and it all lined up to these human design centers. So long story short, seven anti entrepreneurs in Making Friends with Fear book 2015 have become nine anti entrepreneurs.

Or I'm actually calling them visibility Block Fear frames, basically. The thing to know about these is that these are conditioned ways of moving through the world. [00:11:00] Now, we could have been conditioned by the general systems of oppression, the patriarchy, the, fill in the blank here, all the isms. We could have been conditioned by our family.

We could have been conditioned by our culture, our communities, where we grew up,, whether we had siblings or not. All of these things, this has become. Such a powerful map for myself to understand how to help clients much more specifically with visibility and voice limiting patterns of behavior. And this has just been like, like my pattern recognition, my A DHD pattern recognition brain is like, whoa, so excited.

Because when you can introduce something to peoplewhere they get a better understanding of themselves. And you can understand that these are ways that we've been conditioned. Just like if you've been brought up in a family where your sticky note in your family is to be the good girl or the peacemaker maker or the [00:12:00] rebel, the black sheep, whatever.

They're ways that we've been conditioned that's how we have to behave. That is our role. To stay safe, to stay loved, to stay, , not rejected, et cetera, et cetera. The beautiful thing is when you understand in your business that the way that you are, like if you always procrastinate, when you go to make reels or you go to speak on stage, and you just lose your mind because there is something massive in you that just cannot imagine speaking, live in front of X amount of people, whatever turns up in your system.

So often when I'm working with my beautiful rebel disruptor, revolutionary healer, helper, creative, neurosparkly clients, they're like, I just dunno why I can't do this. And I'm like, okay, hang on. Always through a lens of compassion, always through a lens of self-awareness as well. And so these nine archetypes are the ways that I've been [00:13:00] helping my clients to understand exactly how.

They could have been conditioned and are likely to have been conditioned and how they can alchemize it. So just like I stand totally against. Having any business strategy that says this will work for everybody, and we all know that's bullshit, right? We all know that.

Me versus somebody who has a completely different background or a different skillset, or a different energy, a different brain. We are all going to need different ways of showing up in the world, and that is why I'm dead against anything that says we have to market this way.

We have to communicate this way. We must follow the template. And I will say, if someone is trying to get you to follow the template, then they're actually missing the point and you are setting yourself up to fail because there is no template, there has never been anyone like you and there never will again.

This is like my geneticist from my first. Um, career [00:14:00] as a, a forensic biologist, I was fascinated by the fact that genetically, apart from identical twins, there is never ever going to be another you ever again. Like you are unique. Unique unicorns, amazing, sparkly, fantastic people. So why would we then say, Hey, Robin, Emma, Tara, Joe, and Elise should all use the same visibility strategy.

And I'm like, what a load of shit. So. I I am so excited about this entire system that I've taken and I feel like my original Making Friends With Fear Book combined my training in traditional Chinese medicine, IFS, EFT. Oriental psychology, using the five elements theory to understand ourselves and our patterns and the chakra system.

So already making friends with fear was like this apple strudel layer upon layer upon layer upon layer, along upon layer of all of these. Ancient and modern systems that help us to understand ourselves. Now, what I've done is just [00:15:00] added in this final kind of icing on the cake of the human design understanding, and I tell you what, this apple strudel of anti entrepreneurs and fear frames is freaking delicious.

I have made this beautiful apple strudel system and the aha moments that it has been creating for myself and also in my client community in the last six months or so.

I just can't ignore it. Like rather than saying to you, I teach voice and visibility now I can say, Hey, here's nine archetypes. Based on your human design and the way you move through the world, here are the parts or the archetypes that you might have received the most conditioning around.

So for me, going back to my original story. My two archetypes are the over preneur, which is the over worker person who forgets about joy, someone who lives in their head instead of living in their heart, so disconnected from their sacral center basically. And the other one is called the blur [00:16:00] preneur.

I don't find that that plays out as much with me, but I definitely do have. Times where I'm like, who the fuck am I and what am I meant to be doing in the world? And I feel that is more often than some people. But I do find that that specificity around the G Center, which is my other open center, is something that does give those identity wobbles more.

And I feel like that's been a real gift for me as well, 'cause I'm such a why learner and I'm finding this with my clients as well. Once I can say, Hey, here's where you might be conditioned. Do these feel like they're the things that block your visibility?

And if so, here's the flip side of it, which is what I call the freedom frequency. So we are going from fear to freedom, and that is your greatest superpower. So as with everything, the things that you are served up to growth through are the things that will create your evolution, and that is such. A blessing.

[00:17:00] 'cause you're like, I don't have to worry about any of that stuff. Here's my key Achilles heels and here's the specific ways that I can start alchemizing them like it makes things so much simpler. Very exciting news. Later this month on September the 23rd, and if you're listening to this after September 23rd, you will be able to do this entire live activation that I'm doing, via Evergreen.

'cause I'll open it up straight away. I am running what I'm calling ROAR Live and the whole kind of why behind ROAR Live is that. We all know that the systems in the world are crumbling. We all know that there is so many ways in which the systems of oppression are getting worse and worse and worse. And we are at this pendulum swing, and the people I work with are the disruptors of rebels and revolutionaries that are going to be paving or are already paving the new pathways that will create new paradigms, right?

However. If we are all stuck with these conditioned [00:18:00] parts, making sure that we are people pleasing, staying safe, staying palatable, good girling ourselves, dismissing and downplaying our own magic. We cannot contribute to building the new paradigms. There is no way that we can do both of those things.

Good girls do not lead revolutions, but untamed unashamed wild women do. So this visibility work is all about identifying your Achilles heels through the system that I have, and then me introducing you to the alchemy that will allow you to step from that fear frame into the freedom frequency, and then you are free to get the fuck on with going and changing the world.

Because God knows we need every single one of us, right? So if you are listening to this and you have anything at all in business that feels like it's too unsafe, edgy. You might be afraid of success or afraid of failing. You might be afraid of being judged. You might be afraid of whatever, but it is stopping you from sharing your work in the [00:19:00] world in a powerful way so that you can call in more of your soulmate clients and create more of the contribution and yes, more cash flow.

When we are hiding ourselves, we are not opening up the gates. Of wealth and abundance. In our business,

so we are running ROAR live 23rd to the 25th of September. It is three days. The calls are 9:00 AM Australian Eastern standard time, which means the afternoon or evening before, if you're in the Northern Hemisphere, the sales page information will be in the, show notes. And I'm so freaking excited.

It is only $33. It will completely change the way that you see yourself. And if you're like the rest of my clients, it will give you a filter with which you can say, energetically my blueprint. Has given me a chance to learn conditioning and to unlearn it so I [00:20:00] can set myself wild and finally fucking free to be my whole unapologetic self.

I'm so freaking excited about that. I bet you could tell. So. Join me live. We are gonna be snack sizing, our voice and visibility. I'm gonna be sharing in the next few episodes, all of the different archetypes so you can go, oh, and I'm also in the middle of designing a quiz, , hopefully we will have that.

Ready to go very soon and I'll come back and drop it in the show notes. So for now, welcome back to season six. I'm so freaking excited that you're here.

And I will also still be interviewing disruptors, rebels and revolutionaries. That are here to change the world because us wild wise, untamed unh, women need to step the F up. Talk more about what it takes to actually show up as ourselves and support each other, sisterhood community, holding each other up in our gifts.

That's what it's all about. So big love from me to you. I'm so excited to be kicking off this season, and I will see you very soon. [00:21:00] Mm-hmm.